You can't make someone love you. You can't make people do things they don't want to do. Some things are just meant to be, even if you don't like it. It's a known fact that women use the left side, the more emotional side, of the brains while men use the right, the more logical. It's a battle when you're using both sides and they each say something different.
I'm not afraid to admit that I've made bad choices. I'm not ashamed to say that I've screwed things up. And I'm not embarrassed to say I use the left side of my brain more often. It's who I am, even if that makes me crazy. Someone will find that endearing, right? Stupid question. I know someone will.
As much as you may want something to work, as much as you may want someone to say something, it's not always going to happen. And that's life - gotta get used to it. No two people think the same, act the same, feel the same. That's something that attracts people to each other. It's fun getting to know how someone works, even though some of those things you learn you might not like. But it's who the person is and if you love them, you love that part of them.
Maybe my problem is that I love too much. Or maybe try too hard? Or not hard enough? Blah, who knows. Life is about loving and learning. I've learned a hell of a lot in the past couple years, including today. The way you think things are may not always be true. No matter how hard you wish you could change things, you can't always do that. So when it comes to the battle of left versus right...ignore both of them and go with your gut. But remember, there's a chance it's gonna hurt, sting and burn.
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